‘…You can’t get forgiveness… without…forgiving others.’ Matthew 6:15
Blaming creates enemies. The person you are blaming will ignore you, compile numerous proofs of their innocence, and resent you. And their friends will defend them and become your enemies. Even your own friends will get fed up with your complaining and distance you. Your ‘root of bitterness’ will spread, causing ‘many [to be] defiled,’ and making things worse (Hebrews 12:15 NKJV). Blaming rubs off. Blamers beget blamers. Your family gets drawn in, so they suffer too.
from UCB word for today